Hello everyone I’m a single mom of one and I started dating 3 years after me and my kid father ended things, but I was still helping him out like letting him stay with me when he wasn’t staying with me I would let him stay over my house to spend time with our kid on his days off. March 2025 he moved out and I haven’t heard from him or seen him since he might have called my phone a few times to talk to his kid but never took the initiative to really b involved since he left. I feel like as a parent no matter what me and the other parent are going through the kid should never suffer cause they don’t have nothing to do with what we have going on and the kid is not the reason for why we ended I feel like as a dad/father whatever he wants to call him self he shouldn’t let that shyt get in the way of him and his kid relationship cause every kid needs both parents active an present in there life cause it’s things that he/she can and need to learn from both parties.
Now I do have a question. How can I get him to see the bigger picture? cause it’s not me or him it’s the kid that’s the bigger picture.